The party was organised by Maybelle, the home’s Hummingbird, and is one of several spa days that have taken place at Shottermill House. The fact that these pampering afternoons continue to be organised is a testament to how much they are enjoyed by our 'family members' (those who live with us) and the positive impact they have on their wellbeing.
The afternoon created a calm and peaceful atmosphere where family members could take some time out and simply enjoy being cared for. There were soothing hand massages, beautifully painted nails, refreshing watermelon and calming music, all helping to create a relaxing spa experience.
For Deborah, Activities and community Engagement (ACE) Facilitator, the spa days are about much more than being pampered. They provide an opportunity to offer care in a different and very meaningful way.
“Human touch is really important. For family members who have to be cared for and helped to be washed and dressed, then the spa moment is very different. Holding a hand and giving someone a massage, having your nails painted or even a facial massage is relaxing and caring for the family member in a holistic way.”
The spa party offers family members the chance to experience positive, nurturing touch in a setting where they can relax and enjoy themselves. It is a small moment of care that can make a big difference, particularly for those who rely on others for their everyday personal care.
Deborah also spoke to family member Joy, about what she thought of the experience. Joy summed it up simply:
“Pamper days are quite good fun, it is nice to be pampered and then we come back to reality.”
The afternoon was a lovely reminder that care is not only about meeting practical needs - it is also about creating moments of joy, connection, dignity and wellbeing.
After all, everyone deserves a little pampering!
Shottermill House is a 31-bed residential care home in Haslemere, Surrey.
We offer residential care for older people, including for those who are living with dementia. We can provide respite care to those who need it and we are able to offer care at the end of life.
At Shottermill House each room has an adjustable bed, bedside cabinet, chest of drawers, wardrobe and comfortable chair.
We have a garden for those who live with us to enjoy the sunshine, help with a little gardening, or share with visiting family and friends.
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