Friday 24th January 2025
My Story: Eileen
Tyler Sewell-Nicholas
Eileen, 93, lives at Luff House, Walton-on-the-Naze. She told us how growing up in wartime London shaped her resilience, how her love for music and faith carried her through life’s challenges, and how she continues to cherish the joy of community

Eileen’s journey began in Islington, London, where she was born and raised. Reflecting on her childhood, Eileen describes the area as a slum, with hard and challenging living conditions. Yet, it was home, and despite the hardships, it shaped the resilient and vibrant woman she would become. “Life was tough, but we got through it,” she says. “You just had to keep going.”
For part of the Second World War, Eileen was evacuated to Lincolnshire. She worked on a farm, an experience that she admits was not particularly happy. “I missed London terribly,” she recalls. “I couldn’t wait to get back to the noise, the people, and the streets I knew so well.”
Eileen attended The Copenhagen Girls' School on Boadicea Street in Islington. She left school at 14, armed with an excellent reference from the headmaster, which highlighted her diligence and potential. “I always tried my best,” she says. “I wanted to make my family proud.” Her first job was in clerical work, and she held positions at Collet’s Bookshop on Charing Cross Road, Cundell Corrugated, and Bishops Butchers in Chelmsford. Summers often found her in orchards, where she picked and grafted trees—work she remembers fondly. “There’s something satisfying about working with your hands,” she shares. “It made me feel connected to the Earth.”
Family has always been central to Eileen’s life. Her parents, Emily and George, raised her alongside two older brothers, Jimmy and Bill. “Jimmy was always making music, and Bill was always driving his bus,” she says with a smile. Jimmy had his own band, while Bill drove a London bus for most of his life and married his “clippie” (bus conductress), Sheila.
Eileen also cherishes memories of her first husband, Edward Joseph Gibbs, whom she married at 18. “Ted was my rock,” she says. “He had such a kind heart.” Edward, known as Ted, served in the Army before working for the Post Office and later part-time at Boots. Together, they had a daughter, Pauline, and in 1971, the family moved to Frinton.
Ted passed away after a long illness, and Eileen later found love again with her second husband, Vic Reece. “Vic made me laugh like no one else could,” she recalls. Vic and Eileen shared a love of music, singing, and dancing, often performing together. Sadly, Vic also passed away after many happy years together.
Pauline’s sudden passing in early 2023 has been a source of deep sorrow for Eileen. She speaks lovingly of her daughter and treasures visits from Pauline’s best friend, Mel, and her son-in-law, Phil. “Pauline was my everything,” Eileen says, her voice tinged with emotion. “She was the light of my life.” While she has no grandchildren, Eileen’s niece, Sue, remains a comforting presence in her life. “Sue always knows how to cheer me up,” Eileen shares.



Eileen’s love of music has been a golden thread throughout her life. “I love music,” she says. “It’s in my soul.” She fondly recalls leading a choir and teaching others to sing, though she admits to having high standards. “People think anyone can sing, but it takes effort and passion,” she says. Her favourite hymn is ‘Give Me Oil In My Lamp,’ which she often sings with enthusiasm. “It’s such a joyful song,” she adds.
Over the years, Eileen has made significant contributions to her community. She raised funds for the Air Ambulance and St Helena Hospice and was part of a singing group that performed free concerts for elderly people. “Helping others has always brought me happiness,” she says. “Few things compare to the joy of seeing someone smile because of something you've done. Harmonies are what I love most. There’s nothing quite like the joy of voices blending together.”
Eileen’s faith is another cornerstone of her life. A devoted Christian, she supported the Frinton Free Church and participated in devotions at Luff House as a volunteer for many years. While her care needs prevent her from attending Sunday services now, she remains spiritually connected. “My faith keeps me strong,” she says. “It gives me hope and peace.”
At Luff House, Eileen finds comfort in the simple joys of life—a cup of tea, a slice of cake, and a good chat. “Tea and cake make everything better,” she says. She enjoys singing, dancing, and listening to interesting talks. An animal lover, she fondly remembers Penny, a Jack Russell, Mandy, a Lancashire Heeler, and her close bond with Pauline’s cat, Pud. “Animals have a way of loving you unconditionally,” she says.
Eileen’s story is one of resilience, love, and music. Her laughter, her songs, and her steadfast faith continue to inspire those around her. As she puts it, “You’ve got to love music, and I do. It’s been the soundtrack to my life.”
@pilgrimsfriendsociety Eileen, a beloved family member at Luff House used to conduct a choir and it was great to see her joining in with the Jupiter Singers. 🥰🎶 #pilgrimsfriendsociety #lifewithus #carehomes #olderpeople #music #community #choir #carehomeactivities ♬ original sound - Pilgrims' Friend Society
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