
Friday 23rd May 2025
Our love story: Michael and Joan
Michael and Joan live at Dorothea Court, Bedford, and have been married for over 60 years. We found out how their love first blossomed and what has made it last

Michael was born on the 9th September 1927 in Gelli, a small Welsh village known for its coal mining heritage. He was the youngest of ten children, raised in a Christian home by his coal mining father and devoted mother, Emma, known as a prayer warrior.” Life in Gelli was tough but the strong family bond shaped Michael’s values from a young age. When Michael was nine, the family moved to London, a change that would eventually lead him to a new chapter entirely.
Michael joined the Navy at aged 17 and was stationed in Northern Ireland, working on Spitfires. During this time, Michael began to distance himself from the faith. Still, his mother never stopped praying for him. Her deepest desire, as she neared the end of her life, was for Michael to return to the Lord and find a wife who would walk the path of faith with him. “It was her dying wish for me to find a wife”, he said. Sadly, she passed away around Easter in 1959, not knowing that the very person she had been praying for had already arrived in London that January.
"It was her dying wish for me to find a wife."
Joan was born on 9th August 1937 in Gwaun-Cae-Gurwen, a Welsh coal-mining village in the Amman Valley. As an only child, she lost her mother young, and her father worked as a coal miner, attending church occasionally. Joan, on the other hand, became deeply rooted in Carmel Chapel. She attended services every Sunday and soon became a youth leader. From an early age, she had a strong maternal instinct and dreamed of having a family of her own. “I was always nursing babies in the village!” she says. After studying to be a teacher at Barry Training College, she moved to London in 1959 to begin her first job. That same year, she became a Christian, drawing strength from Philippians 4:13: ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,’ a verse she still holds close to her today.
That same year, Michael experienced a spiritual awakening. He came back to faith through Peniel Chapel in North Kensington and began preaching in open-air ministry. In the summer of 1959, at the age of 32, he was speaking about his Christian faith at Speaker’s Corner in Hyde Park. As he preached, a group of hecklers began to interrupt. However, a spirited young woman stepped forward from the crowd and boldly told them to “be quiet”. That woman was 22-year old Joan.
Michael noticed her straight away – her courage, her presence, her accent. “She caught my eye,” Michael chuckles. The two struck up a conversation, discovering their shared Welsh heritage and Christian faith.
Michael asked Joan for marriage in Easter the following year, but Joan had other plans. “I said to him, why wait until next Easter? Why not Christmas?” And so, they married on Boxing Day of that same year at Carmel Chapel. They had their honeymoon in Leicester as they didn’t have much money at the time, but it was full of joy and promise. Later in life, they were able to enjoy a Saga cruise together, which Joan describes fondly as “the best holiday we’ve been on.

"I said to him, why wait until next Easter? Why not Christmas?”

They had five children: Paul (1960), a musician, formally in the band M People, who now mentors young talent; Benjamin (1961), a primary school teacher; Johnathan (1963), a piano tuner and technician at the Royal Festival Hall and Southbank; James (1966), a vicar and the Area Dean of Kensington; and Hannah (1970), a locality teacher. Joan continued her teaching career while Michael became more active in ministry, serving as a deacon at Immanuel Church in North Kensington (1985–1995) and later recognised as a minister in the Assemblies of God. Today, they are proud grandparents to twelve supportive and caring grandchildren. “We can’t thank God enough for our family,” Michael said.
Among the happiest times they both recall are their family holidays to Hern Bay Court, which they visited every other year with their children. Their involvement in overseas ministry also brought them much joy. Both Michael and Joan dedicated themselves to mission work in India through the Compassionate Service Society of India (CSSI). With support from their church family at Mission Hall in Cwmtwrch, they raised funds to install 54 wells in Calcutta, West Bengal villages and Kerala hills. Michael visited India about 15 times, and Joan made around 23 trips, always paying their own way. “The Lord has provided for us,” they both affirm. Their work included distributing educational books and children's Bibles in Bengali, as well as building relationships with local communities. Michael was respected for treating everyone equally, and Joan’s passion for service only grew with each visit.
Life brought its share of challenges for the married couple. In 1995, Michael underwent a triple bypass operation, a difficult time made even more stressful by the demands of ministry. More recently, Michael has been living with dementia, and the couple now find comfort in a steady routine. They begin each day with prayer, lifting up their family, their home, one another, and the country. “There’s ups and downs,” Joan admits, “but we work it out together.” Whether it’s riding the bus to Bernie’s café or grabbing a pastry at Greggs, they love chatting to people, often curious about their lasting love. “Wherever we go, we like to share our testimony,” says Joan.
"Wherever we go, we like to share our testimony.”

In August 2023, Michael and Joan moved into Dorothea Court, a decision they believe was divinely timed. They had known of the place for years through their support of the Congo Evangelical Mission, where retired missionaries were once cared for. Now, they are grateful to call it home. “Thanking the Lord for leading us to Dorothea Court. Right place, right time,” Michael says.
Their spiritual life continues to flourish in their new setting. “Our church is in the lounge,” Joan explains. “We have devotions on Tuesday mornings, Bible study on Thursdays, and communion every Sunday.” They also attend the Bunyan Church for Lent services, but feel their true spiritual community is right here at Dorothea Court.
At Dorothea Court, there are many daily blessings to be enjoyed. “We love the garden, and when the college students come to visit,” says Joan. Michael is keen on the keep fit exercises that take place at the home and continues to play the piano in his living room. His favourite piece to play is ‘Somewhere Over The Rainbow’. He recalls living at his former home and how a neighbourhood cat would run across the street every time she heard the music, always settling beside him as he played the piano. “It was quite a funny memory,” says Joan.
After more than six decades together, their love shines brighter than ever with a beautiful legacy built on faith, love and community.
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