Growing in older age

1) We’re constantly evolving spiritually
Once you get to a certain age, your spiritual growth doesn’t just stop. We’re all continuing to evolve from the gifts we have been given through contact with our heavenly Father. The growth doesn’t come from ourselves but from Him. There is no cut-off point.

2) God will provide in very difficult times
I was divorced when I was 60 and moved to a hamlet in Leicestershire. While living here I found out that Carey Gardens was being built and applied for a flat. I truly believe God led me here. To come into this community has been heaven. It’s a bit like being in a boarding school in the nicest possible way. Everyone is so kind and considerate, whether it’s sharing a washing line or sharing a cup of coffee. It’s such a blessing to be here.

3) You can learn new things
In retirement, I’ve done lots of things including an art class, poetry classes and a course in local history. I’m part of an adult learning group where we discuss a different topic of general interest each time and I get so much out of it. I also do something called shared reading where a text is read to us and we are invited to discuss and respond to it. I love words and I love hearing other people’s ideas and reflections.

6) Physical exercise is important, even if you need to adapt
Many people living at Carey Gardens have been active in sports and achieved awards in bowls, golf, fishing etc. My exercise has been rambling and walking groups. But now I find that I can’t enjoy walking and talking at the same time as I get out of puff. So being out in the fresh air needs to include a seat or park bench for the talking part. For me, a good walk follows a figure-of-eight pattern – I don’t like a ‘there-and-back’.