Sophie Duncan is an ordinand in the Diocese of Bristol and has recently completed an MA in practical theology at Sarum College, focusing on dementia and faith. Ahead of a speaking event with our partner charity Faith in Later Life, she explores how we can help make our churches places of welcome for those living with dementia

A key part of being dementia friendly starts with the services. Getting the welcome right is a good start. Smiling, making eye contact, remembering names, all help. Try to avoid questions that rely on short-term memory, like “How was your week?” as these can be difficult to answer for someone living with dementia. Educating the congregation about dementia helps foster empathy. Having a “buddy” to sit with someone during services can offer comfort and support, both to the individual and their carer. It also allows carers to connect with others, knowing their loved one is cared for.

The physical environment matters too. Clear signage, contrasting toilet fixtures, accessible pathways, and strong safeguarding practices all contribute to a more navigable and safe space.

Services can be improved by using straightforward language; ensuring everything needed is included in one large print booklet; offering images or props to guide participants through the service; using familiar liturgy, such as the Lord’s Prayer; and including hymns familiar to those living with dementia. Consider if and how to talk about dementia in sermons and prayers, emphasising God’s love of people living with dementia, whilst not sanitising some of the hard realities. Providing space for lament and sorrow can be important, for example incorporating silence and music.

Avoid judging worship solely by visible responses. Presence and participation may take many forms. I’ve often seen people living with dementia participate, for example, by comforting someone else or joining in a hymn despite usually being non-verbal, but also know God is ministering in ways that we cannot see.