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The coronavirus lock-down has shown what we really value

Friday 5th June 2020

The coronavirus lock-down has shown what we really value

Louise Morse

As we entered the 2020s in January, I wrote about how Christians could make the decade the new Roaring 20's by raising a collective voice against the things that damage our society, particularly ageism. Then came the coronavirus crisis, and overnight our tectonic plates shifted. Isolated from each other, we found out the hard way who – and what – really matters in life.

The value of life at all ages. A telephone caller to BBC Radio 4s Any Questions? asked if ‘the trade-off’ for trying to save the lives of the elderly was, “really worth it, when it will cripple the younger generation’s lives for decades”? Programme panellists were quick to say there was no ‘trade-off’ to consider, and that the right to life is the most important human right.

Other callers backed the panellists, with one, Chris, stating, “The issue is should we sacrifice our elderly and vulnerable to save the young from the economic effects of COVID-19? And put that way round, it’s a heartless and immoral question.”

There is still, as Guardian columnist John Harris noted, ‘a set of prejudices about older people that have sat in the culture for far too long.’

It’s the carers and other unsung workers who really matter. When the chips were down, we realised the the important people in our lives are those we depend on – the ones whose lives are dedicated to helping others. As well as NHS front-line staff, we’ve been clapping the bin-men, the cleaners, the postmen and the delivery men, the other clearer-uppers, and the newly-crowned carers – those who care for a family member and those who work in care homes. There are calls for them to be recognised and valued as the skilled people they are, and for immigration rules to be altered to allow more to enter the country.

The vital role of care homes. A lady I met at a conference told me how she’d visited one of our Pilgrims’ Friend Society’s homes some years ago. “I never forgot it,” she said, “there was such a loving, caring atmosphere.” It could be said, to varying levels, of thousands of others in the UK, but you never hear this in the media where the view of care homes is skewed in the public perception. “Too few of us thought about the vital work so many dedicated people are doing in them,” wrote John Harris, “and people in power seem content for such places to remain a byword for low-paid work.” There is a long way to go in correcting public perception, but the crisis has not only shown the vital work care homes are doing, but how they are still seen as secondary to the NHS. Many influencers, including MPs, are trying to change that.

The value of volunteering. When a call went out for volunteers to help in the NHS and social services, 750,000 people volunteered in less than a week. That is just one example. People of all ages are volunteering to help in hundreds of ways in their communities, finding huge satisfaction and value in helping others.

The value of community. Realisation has dawned that globalisation is good for business but not for people. (Ironically, China, where the coronavirus originated, is also the manufacturing base for global corporations. Most of the world’s PPE is made in China, and this has led to supply shortages.) The crisis has seen countless acts of kindness strengthening communities of all kinds – neighbours are speaking to neighbours they hardly knew before, and local restaurants have turned, temporarily, into take-aways. More churches have become community food-centres, with donations from every major supermarket.

When reality bites, the superficial is abandoned. “After this is over,” said a post on Facebook, “I don’t want to hear about celebrities. I want the red carpet rolled out for doctors, nurses, carers, council workers, and all the real people.” Amen to that.

As part of our Prayer Week 2020 blog series, Scheme Manager Mandy Smith, shares how those living at Pilgrim Gardens, Leicester are being supported through the coronavirus lockdown. Find out more