Monday 29th September 2025
Meet a Hummingbird...Lesley
Tyler Sewell-Nicholas
Lesley has worked at Koinonia Christian Care Home, Worthing, for over 12 years. What began as a temporary job soon became a true calling that brings her joy, purpose and faith every day
Twelve years ago, I never imagined I’d end up in care. My children had just gone off to university, and I needed a little extra income alongside my office job. One Sunday after church, I felt God nudging me: “There’s an opening in a home for you—just try.” I didn’t even call ahead; I simply knocked on the door at Koinonia Christian Care Home and asked if there was a vacancy. There was. Looking back now, I know it was a calling.
I began as a carer, balancing shifts with office work, and I grew to love it. More recently, I transitioned into being a Hummingbird. The timing was perfect because care work is very physical, and as I’ve got older, it’s become harder. It wasn’t easy to step away from hands-on caring, but this role means I can continue to look after older people in a different way.
My mornings always start with smiles. I never walk past anyone without saying hello, and I often put calming music on to set the tone. greet those who are bed-bound and spend time with our ‘family members’ (those who live with us) living with dementia, who especially love singing hymns with me. Along the way, I update calendars and weather boards, play word games, chat, or simply sit quietly—sometimes offering nothing more than a hug or the comfort of holding someone’s hand when they feel low. I still enjoy helping at breakfast, which reminds me of my carer days and gives me precious moments of connection, and later I help with tea and coffee, which always leads to a cheerful natter. The joy on people’s faces when we arrive is priceless, and while they say we bless them, I know in my heart that they bless me just as much.
The joy is in the little things. Recently I was praying with a lady who has Lewy body dementia and is mostly non-verbal. As we said grace before lunch, she very clearly responded, “Amen.” It sent shivers down me. Those moments stay with you.
Faith has always been at the heart of my work. There’s such a sense of peace and love in this home, and prayer carries me through the challenges. The Psalms and the Lord’s Prayer are my greatest comforts, and whenever I feel stretched, I pray. God always provides the strength and calm I need.
Outside of work, I love walking. Just the other day I did an eight-mile stretch along the Thames from Teddington to Richmond. Gardening is another passion of mine, and lately I’ve been trying out new recipes. My husband was very happy with the fish pie I made recently! I’m also a mum to three grown-up children and grandmother to two. With my children independent now, life feels more balanced, though I do also support my elderly mum. I’m grateful that Pilgrims’ Friend Society have always been so understanding and flexible when family needs arise.
For me, being a Hummingbird is all about having a heart for people. It’s about showing compassion, empathy, and kindness, and bringing a cheerful spirit. People need someone to brighten their day, and that’s the difference we can make.
Koinonia feels like my second home. I sometimes joke that I feel like a footballer, getting paid to do something you truly love. Of course, without the footballer’s wages! But honestly, this isn’t just a job. It’s a joy.
Hand on heart, this is the best thing I’ve ever done. Being a Hummingbird is fulfilling, rewarding, and it’s made me who I am.
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